I wish I had learned this sooner: Stop trying to figure out what ‘they’ want and trying to fit into that. Find what it is about yourself that is unique and interesting and powerful that you feel is your strength. Don’t necessarily get your nose fixed and your teeth fixed and your breasts done or whatever else you think you should do because you think they’re looking for that. Because if you really look at the people who are successful, most of them just have a quality where they’re being true to themselves, and we find that interesting and want to watch them. Whatever the quality is that makes you uniquely you, that’s what you should foster and groom and take care of and protect. Don’t try to mess it up, because you’re just going to dilute everything.
Dreams by Langston Hughes.
Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.





